Sonoma County, in the heart of Northern California wine country, exudes a laid-back charm and a deep appreciation for life's pleasures. Its picturesque vineyards and redwood forests invite you to savor the richness of nature. With a culture rooted in wine-making, farm-to-table dining, and artistic creativity, Sonoma County celebrates a slower pace of life, where the blend of innovation and tradition thrives. Here, community, sustainability, and a love for the arts intertwine, creating a welcoming, rustic haven that beckons you to unwind and embrace the simple joys of the region.
The closest major airport to Sonoma County is San Francisco International Airport (SFO). From there, you can rent a car and drive to Sonoma County, which is about a 1.5 to 2-hour drive.
Another option is Oakland International Airport (OAK), which is also relatively close to Sonoma County.
The Charles M. Schulz Sonoma County Airport (STS) in Santa Rosa is a smaller airport that serves the wine country region. It's a convenient option if you can find a flight that fits your travel plans.
We’ve curated a short-list of boutique hotels perfect for your wine country girls’ weekend. If you want to find a complete list of hotels in the area, visit our partner site to book your stay. Note: many of the boutique hotels we recommend have a nightly amenities fee for some awesome extras included in your stay. Be sure to read the fine print and take advantage of everything included.
The Lodge at Sonoma Resort is a luxurious haven in the heart of California wine country. This upscale retreat boasts an array of amenities for a pampering stay. Guests can savor farm-to-table cuisine at the on-site restaurant, rejuvenate with spa treatments, or unwind by the outdoor pool and hot tub. Wine enthusiasts will appreciate the proximity to local vineyards and on-site evening wine receptions. With elegant accommodations and a serene atmosphere, The Lodge at Sonoma Resort offers a perfect blend of relaxation and indulgence for a memorable escape.
The Flamingo Resort in Santa Rosa is a haven of mid-century style, luxury, and leisure. This iconic resort boasts a stunning array of amenities, including a magnificent pool surrounded by lush gardens, perfect for relaxation. Fitness enthusiasts can make use of the well-equipped gym. tennis and pickleball courts and a full-service spa. Dining options abound with an exquisite restaurant and bar and poolside dining. For those seeking entertainment, there's a vibrant nightclub on-site. Whether you're here for relaxation or adventure, The Flamingo Resort offers an extensive range of amenities to ensure a memorable stay.
The Sandman in Santa Rosa is a haven of modern comfort and convenience. Affordable and inviting, guests can relax by the heated pool, unwind in the hot tub, and enjoy poolside cocktails and light bites. The property features a tranquil garden area, a bocce ball court for recreation, and backyard fire tables with Adirondack chairs. Inside, each room is equipped with flat-screen TVs, mini-fridges, and coffee makers. Guests will enjoy the elevated complimentary continental breakfast with pancakes. With its thoughtful amenities, The Sandman ensures a delightful stay for your girls' getaway.
Hotel Healdsburg offers a luxurious wine country retreat with an array of amenities. Guests can savor locally inspired cuisine at Charlie Palmer's Dry Creek Kitchen, lounge by the pool, or unwind in the serene spa. Extras include a fitness center, public bikes, and a fireplace lounge serving light fare, wine, and cocktails in the evening. The hotel also provides access to nearby wineries and vineyard tours, creating a perfect blend of relaxation and wine-country exploration. Enjoy the epitome of Sonoma hospitality at Hotel Healdsburg.
Liora Estate in Healdsburg is a luxurious haven offering impeccable amenities. This French-inspired boutique hotel pampers guests with its signature sleep experience, in-room fireplaces, and marble bathrooms. The on-site Maréla restaurant serves delectable Coastal European inspired cuisine and daily in-room breakfasts elevate the culinary experience. This charming hotel also has exclusive relationships with local wineries for complimentary tastings and other exclusive amenities (contact the hotel for a list of partner wineries). Liora Estate is the epitome of elegance and comfort in the heart of California's wine country.
H2Hotel in Healdsburg is the epitome of eco-chic luxury. This sustainable boutique gem offers an array of thoughtfully designed amenities. Guests can relax in eco-friendly rooms featuring Egyptian cotton linens, then rejuvenate with complimentary cruiser bikes or take a dip in the solar-heated pool. Savor farm-to-table cuisine at the on-site Spoonbar restaurant, and indulge in organic spa treatments. Complimentary daily breakfast and Sunday morning yoga are included. H2Hotel's commitment to sustainability is evident in every detail, making it a top choice for eco-conscious travelers seeking a blend of modern comfort and environmental responsibility.
Harmon Guest House in Healdsburg, California, offers a luxurious stay with a focus on modern amenities. Guests can bask in the rooftop lounge with panoramic views, unwind in the heated pool or relax on the creek side deck. Complimentary daily continental breakfast, three-hour bike rentals and Sunday yoga are included. High-end tech features and stylish, eco-friendly design make for a comfortable and sustainable stay.
El Dorado Hotel in Sonoma redefines luxury with its exceptional amenities. Guests can savor wine country flavors at the on-site restaurant, unwind by the fireplace in the elegant lounge, or relax in the solar-heated, saltwater pool. The hotel also offers a lively bar and a lush outdoor garden courtyard. Each room boasts modern comforts and scenic views. The central plaza location ensures easy access to Sonoma's wineries and shops. Experience the epitome of wine country hospitality at El Dorado Hotel.
Vinarosa Resort and Spa in Santa Rosa a luxurious resort on a working vineyard. Guests enjoy first-class amenities, including an inviting outdoor heated plunge pool, a serene spa for rejuvenation, and a fitness center for those seeking an active stay. The resort also boasts picturesque vineyard views, delectable on-site dining at John Ash & Co., a walking/jogging trail, and vineyard and garden tours. Vinarosa combines relaxation and sophistication in the heart of Sonoma County.
Fairmont Sonoma Mission Inn and Spa is a luxurious retreat nestled in California's wine country. This opulent resort boasts an array of amenities, including a world-class spa offering rejuvenating treatments using local mineral-rich waters. Guests can savor exquisite cuisine at the on-site restaurant, play golf on the nearby championship course, and unwind in the thermal mineral pools. With access to vineyards and historic Sonoma Plaza, it's an idyllic escape for wine lovers and those seeking relaxation. Experience the epitome of indulgence with the wealth of amenities at Fairmont Sonoma Mission Inn and Spa.
Did you know that 59% of US wine consumers are female but only 18% of US winemakers are women? Here at Girlfriend Weekend, we want to support the women breaking down barriers in this industry. When planning your wine country weekend, we suggest a visit to any of the wineries on our list. At the time of publication, all of these producers have a female winemaker at the helm!
Be sure to visit the winery website to check on tasting room hours and if reservations are needed. Some tasting rooms welcome walk-ins, but others require you to call ahead or reserve online. Tasting room experiences can range from a simple tasting to full wine and food pairings and tours of the winery. Check out all the options and plan your visit according to your budget and schedule.
Our last tip is an important one. It’s easy to get swept away by the excitement of it all, but carefully consider how many wineries to visit each day. We recommend 2-3 with a stop for a hearty lunch along the way. Consider hiring a driver for the day, or if you are on a budget, limit the number of places you visit or pick someone as the designated driver!
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Of course, you are going to be buying wine and maybe even joining a wine club or two. But don’t forget about fun boutique clothing, art, gifts, and regional items. Here is a checklist of areas where you’ll find some great shopping.
Healdsburg CA
Healdsburg Plaza is the perfect place for a relaxed, wine‑country shopping day. This historic 19th‑century park sits at the heart of downtown, creating a charming, tree‑lined square surrounded by boutiques, tasting rooms, art galleries, and even Michelin‑starred restaurants. Wander from shop to shop, take breaks for wine flights or small bites, and enjoy the lively atmosphere around the central gazebo, where live music often fills the air.
Santa Rosa CA
Historic Railroad Square is Santa Rosa’s charming, walkable “old town” district, an ideal spot to spend the day shopping and exploring together. Listed on the National Register of Historic Places, the area is filled with beautifully preserved late‑19th‑ and early‑20th‑century stone, brick, and warehouse buildings, including the 1904 depot. As you wander the district, you’ll find unique boutiques, vintage shops, inviting cafés, and plenty of places to pause for a drink or a snack. With its blend of history, character, and locally loved businesses, Railroad Square is a great choice for a relaxed girls’ shopping outing.
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Sonoma Plaza is the perfect setting for spending the day shopping, sipping, and soaking up wine‑country charm. As a National Historic Landmark and the largest town square of its kind in the state, it’s full of character and beauty at every turn. Wander together through old adobe storefronts, meandering alleyways, sunlit courtyards, and historic buildings, discovering an eclectic mix of artisan boutiques, galleries, cafés, tasting rooms, restaurants, and boutique hotels. With its relaxed elegance and endless spots to explore, Sonoma Plaza creates an unforgettable backdrop for a girls’ day out.
